The drive was about four and half hours away, but mostly interstate travel. We left around lunch on Friday and arrived perfectly for check in time. The trip was easy until we came out of Knoxville into Sevierville where traffic was bumper to bumper all the way in. I learned later that there was some kind of cheerleader competition going on that weekend as well as the Christmas parade that night.
The weather when we arrived was cool but clear. However, that would soon change. When we arrived at the Wyndham, the check in went smoothly and we were greeted by a very nice young man who made sure we got the best accommodations he could secure for us.
Once we found our condo, we walked into a very nice, impeccably clean 2 bedroom "home" for the weekend. Everything, with the exception of food of course, was already fully stocked. Our view was lovely from our balcony overlooking the complex and the downtown area with mountains in the background. The location was great for some outlet shopping, entertainment and a bevy of eating establishments. That first evening, after unpacking way too many suitcases, we did a little exploring, eating and settling in.
The Tanger Outlet Mall was a stones throw away so on Saturday we went shopping. Included in the outlet were the usual lineups: Banana Republic, Gap, Coach, Polo, Liz, Tommy, rue21, Kors; all the expected ones. Normally, I don't like to shop, but because it was so near to Christmas, I took advantage of the "bargains" to be found. Coach Purse had a line out the door and wrapped around the interior of the store for their huge sale on previous season's styles. Some at 70% savings! So we spent several hours checking out almost every one of the 100 plus stores in that one location. It was fun, but the weather outside was turning colder and wetter.
In addition to the shopping at the Tanger, we visited some of the other shopping venues there in Sevierville, Pigeon Forge and then drove over to Gatlinburg. At the end of the day, we were tired, wet, cold and hungry. It had rained on and off the whole day and snow flurries had begun with the cooler temps. We checked out the local TGI Friday's and had a good warm meal and returned to our condo, arms loaded with packages, to a relaxing whirlpool tub and comfy bed making our plans for the next day while snow flurries continued.
Sunday, we began the day with snow flurries but temps hovering above the freezing point.We did some more shopping in Gatlinburg, ate at the Pancake House and then decided to drive over to Cades Cove. Though it was early afternoon, I knew we would be pushing it to get there and back before dark. I really didn't want to be caught on the mountain road after dark as they are so winding and the weather was iffy.
For those who aren't familiar with Cades Cove here is the story:
Cades Cove is a broad, verdant valley surrounded by mountains and is one of the most popular destinations in the Great Smokies. It offers some of the best opportunities for wildlife viewing in the park. Large numbers of white-tailed deer are frequently seen, and sightings of black bear, coyote, ground hog, turkey, raccoon, skunk, and other animals are also possible. An 11-mile, one-way loop road circles the cove, offering motorists the opportunity to sightsee at a leisurely pace. Allow at least two to four hours to tour Cades Cove, longer if you walk some of the area’s trails. Traffic is heavy during the tourist season in summer and fall and on weekends year-round. While driving the loop road, please be courteous to other visitors and use pullouts when stopping to enjoy the scenery or view wildlife.
The deer here are usually abundant in certain times of the year, but we just wanted to see the valley no matter if we saw any wildlife or not. It was about an hours drive from our condo. The drive over was easy and traffic light. Once we arrived, there were a good number of other people on the driving loop so I didn't feel totally alone in our craziness to come there in rainy/snowy weather in December.
The first thing we encountered was a huge buck "in rut" unrelentingly chasing a doe. We were able to get some great video and pictures. The views were absolutely breathtaking from the very beginning. From the pasture of horses to the very last doe, it was worth every second of the drive there. But truly the icing on the cake was the encounter with the Black Bear near the end of the motor trail. I have seen quite a few over the years, but never one this big! It had to be over 400 pounds. Foraging in the trees just off the main road, we were able to get some very "up close" pictures. It made the whole trip memorable for sure.
By then, the sun was getting pretty low and I knew we had to scram. So with one last pit stop at the camp ground just outside of the Cove entrance, we started back. I made a last minute decision to go back over the mountain instead of back through Townsend that I would seriously question later.
At first, it was just light flurries-no problem. But as we progressed, it got darker and the snow turned heavier. Visibility got lower and lower until I was just creeping. At first, I had other cars with me but they had wisely turned at the Townsend exit miles back. I had already committed to the mountain route and by time I realized there might be a real problem I was afraid if I didn't keep going forward I would be in even more trouble. Let me just clarify that where I live, just the hint of flurries brings the whole area to a grinding shut down. We don't drive in snow flurries, much less real snow!
So with white knuckles and prickly hairs on the back of my neck I went forward. The only thing that actually brought any sense of hope at that point was that I met two cars coming toward me so I knew that since there wasn't any roads turning off of this road, that the road was still passable ahead.
The snow was coming down heavy and sticking to the road. My GPS told me I had 5 more miles to go until I reached the main road going into Gatlinburg. I felt that if I could reach that road, I would make it to the welcome center where if the roads were impassable, I would at least have shelter and help. Those 5 miles were excruciating! I could barely see in front of me. Pull offs were scarce even if I wanted to give up. The turns were hairpin curves with a mountain wall inches away on one side and a mountainous fall on the other; and we were all alone in the snow covered road.
But forward we went until with about 2 miles left to go to the welcome center, I met a car. It was a Park Ranger! He passed us heading in the opposite direction but immediately turned around in one of the rare pull-offs where another car was stopped. Knowing that in the worse case scenario, at least someone else was out there on that deserted snow covered dark road gave me a sense of relief. I was trying to stay calm though my daughter says that my fear was apparent. Obviously my daughter did not grasp the reality of our situation...
In what seemed like eternity, we finally made it to the welcome center just in time to see the road we just came over closed to traffic... Coming back into town, safe but rattled, where the snow fall was just light, we decided to stop just down the road from our condo to grab a bite to eat and a drink to calm my jangled nerves.
There was a Texas Roadhouse within walking distance of the condo, so that is where we opted to stop. Sitting in a bar area booth, we chose to just get an appetizer and a glass of wine. The place wasn't crowded but had a fair amount of patrons there.
I had just started sipping my wine, reliving our "harrowing" moments, taking my daughters chiding at my "panicky" moments coming down the mountain, when I noticed the guy in the booth beside us was in trouble.
The guy was trying to stand and was clutching his throat making gestures. I immediately got up and asked him if he was choking? He nodded an affirmative as he started heading to the floor. I yelled for some help and grabbed him from behind, gave him the Heimlich maneuver 3 times and he hawked up a piece of steak and coughed. About that time the burly bus boy came up and asked if I wanted him to take over and I stepped out of the way just in time for the guy to vomit all over the place. The way I saw it, vomiting was good at that point. At least that meant, he had a clear throat. I went back to my booth and plopped down. The guy sat down, composed himself and apologized to everyone, clearly embarrassed. He motioned a thank you to me and then the paramedics showed up.
My adrenaline was still pumping at full scale. The waitress came over with our food about that time. I informed her that I would be needing another glass of wine as I gulped down my first one. I had to go into the bathroom and splash cold water on my face in order to calm myself. Once I sat back down, the guy motioned another thank you to me. I told him that I was just glad that he was ok and tried to focus on our appetizers.
Meanwhile the paramedics assessed the situation and checked him out. They made him call someone to come and get him and that was that. He finished his meal and left.
Reflecting back, I remembered a couple of things. A lady at the bar had been obviously watching him for a while and may have even saw that he had been choking. She had done nor said anything because before I even sat back down in my booth she was saying "There is something wrong with that guy. I have seen him go out about 10 times tonight since he sat down."
OoooKaaay...So what did that even mean? Because he left his table several times, possibly even to go out and smoke or whatever, did that mean he needed to be allowed to choke to death? Jeez...! I later asked myself, what if I had been choking and because I had opted to have a glass of wine that night, someone decided I didn't deserve to live..? Frightening thought...
Another thing that I remember is how annoyed the people who worked there appeared to be. Granted I probably was a little sensitive at that point and maybe I didn't have all the information, but it just seemed weird. I realize that they were probably concerned about liability and all but the guy had just almost died. The manager never came over and thanked me for saving his patron. Actually no one did other than the guy who almost choked.
I have to ask have we as a society become so callous that we will let our fellow man die because of our prejudices and assumptions? Wow!
Perhaps, the thing that I took away from all of this was that had it not been for the generosity of my relative, I would not have been in Sevierville, TN at all. If not for my decision to go over the mountain instead of the easier path back to town, I would not have been delayed. If not for our choice to pick Texas Roadhouse over another restaurant, I would not have been there at all. If not for the choice of the booth instead of a table, I would not have seen the guy in the first place... so karma and destiny all played a role. So truly it was my relative that should be credited for saving a mans life. I was just a vessel...
Maybe sometime in the future, maybe if I am very lucky, hopefully someone will pay it forward...and maybe-just maybe- I will get another much needed vacation...